Tonight I saw a client that is dealing with some relationship betrayal... and he said “Sometimes I wish I didn’t give a shit. It’s only because I care so much that I feel this awful pain.”

Isn’t this the truth!

“I don’t want my wife using a sex toy. It isn’t natural and replaces me.”

This kind of thinking comes from some problematic messages we currently deal with in our culture…

I often get the question... how can I be unconditionally loving while still setting boundaries?

I usually respond...

I had a super powerful session with a male client today. After only six sessions of working with me in a sex-positive, evidence-based approach, he was able to say…

I grew up in a religious community where personal worth was correlated with sexual “purity.” We had these things called “worthiness interviews” where…